感谢身边的人的英语演讲稿
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Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine.
And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, whyI felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does thisSo, I decided to investigate.
Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it.
So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we needI know a gentleman, married for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, "Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids," but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, "Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids." And he goes, "Oh, this is great, this is great." And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, "Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it"
So, the question is, why was I blocking itWhy were other people blocking itWhy can I say, "Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes," but I wont say, "Would you praise me this way" And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure. Im telling you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Because what can you do with that dataYou could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my need.
And I took my bike into the bike store-- I love this -- same bike, and theyd do something called "truing" the wheels. The guy said, "You know, when you true the wheels, its going to make the bike so much better." I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of
those same wheels Ive had for two and a half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge all of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do you need to hearGo home to your wife -- go ask her, what does she needGo home to your husband -- what does he needGo home and ask those questions, and then help the people around you.
And its simple. And why should we care about thisWe talk about world peace. How can we have world peace with different cultures, different languagesI think it starts household by household, under the same roof. So, lets make it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the audience for being great husbands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And maybe somebodys never said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job. And thank you for being here, just showing up and changing the world with your ideas.
Thank you. (Applause)
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